Ultimately, a mix of listening to your emotions and turning to the facts will help you paint a clear picture of what life would be like in this new house. Below are a few tips for determining if the home you really like is the one that you’ll love forever.
Listen to Yourself—Literally
The way you react when you see and walk through the home is an important indicator of how you feel about the home. Pat Trainor, a REALTOR® in Blue Ridge, Ga., told Forbes that he knows a house is a good fit when people start talking about furniture as they’re touring the house.
“I believe that most buyers form an impression in the first few seconds after they walk into a house. Is this a happy house? Or does it depress me? Notice how you respond—and trust your reactions,” explains Trainor.
If you’re looking at a number of houses, jot down what you felt as you walked through immediately after you leave. These notes will be helpful as you look back and compare emotions with features, needs met, etc.
Ask Yourself: How Much of My Priority List Is Compromised?
You have a list of non-negotiable items going into the house-hunting process. From number of rooms to floor plan, how many items can you check off your list? If you find that you’re compromising on more than half of the items that matter most to you, it may not be your dream home—even if you love the style or location.
Laura Gummerman explains that it’s important to make sure you’re not confusing must-haves with preferences, as well. She shares her experience with this “mental negotiation” process:
“Decide which things are preferences vs. needs on your list…For example, I loved the vaulted ceilings we had at our last house and really wanted to have them in our next space, as well. I kept trying to hold out for tall ceilings, but the house that fit our top priorities was actually a mid-century ranch. No vaulted ceilings anywhere. I had to realize that what was a ‘need’ was actually more of a ‘want’ and just switch my visual expectations a bit to get the things that really mattered most.”
Turn to the Data
Buying a home is emotional: stressful, frustrating, exciting, scary, and more, all at once. When deciding if a potential house is your dream home, it’s important not to get too wrapped up in the emotion and take time to check out the data. You can’t deny the facts, and the following tools will help you get them.
Learn More About the Community
Whether you’re a single homeowner or a family of four, the community surrounding your home will be a big part of your life. As such, you need to know as much about it as possible. Start to learn by doing research. Look up everything that’s most important to you, including:
Finding your dream home isn’t easy, but when you tune into your emotions, check out facts and stay true to your list of needs, the process is easier. Use these tips to make the best decision and find the home you’ll love forever.
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